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Believing – After Divorce

Divorce can rob you of your faith in life. You can find yourself wanting to stop believing in things like marriage, love, family, in God or even worse…in your own worthiness as a man or woman.

Music and music that contains inspiring lyrics, often helps give us hope and gives us a focus that helps us heal from traumas such as divorce.

I have included the music and lyrics by Lyrics by LeAnn Rimes to her song “I Believe”, sung by Elvis Presley to this post. I hope you give it a listen!

Here are the lyrics and the song as sung by Elvis Presley

Here is the I Believe video: https://www.youtube.com/wa ch?v=sfMMpHscPmQ

I believe for every drop of rain that falls

A flower grows,

Then I know why I believe.

I believe that somewhere in the darkest night

I believe for everyone who goes astray

A candle glows.

Someone will come to show the way.

I believe,

Oh, I believe.

I believe above the storm

The smallest prayer will still be heard.

I believe that someone in that great somewhere

Hears every word

Every time I hear a newborn baby cry,

Or touch a leaf

Or see the sky,

Every time I hear a newborn baby cry,

Or touch a leaf

Or see the sky,

Then I know why I believe

Without believing in a future that exists beyond divorce or separation, or any type of loss for that matter, you are at risk of losing sight of your personal meanings in life that are critical for your healing.

In the process of opening yourself up to the raining down of your tears, the thundering noise from the legal process, and the lightning like pain to your heart, it is possible to appreciate that the simple and free things in life, you can come to believe in something beautiful again.

Looking beyond your current emotions, and outward to that “great somewhere”, often has the power to eclipse painful losses, allowing you to discover, that amid the storms of divorce or lost love relationships, or financial loss, there exists a quiet certainty and peace.

That certainty can be discovered free for the taking like the sound of a baby crying or the sound of the falling leaf that quietly flies down to the earth in a gentle breeze.

These types of things are gifts to the heart and soul that can serve to remind you that you need to look to the power of belief in your life.

At Sawayer Logistics, we can lead the way forward and help you get your bearings back amid the pain and confusion you may have from the storm of divorce.

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Post Divorce Adjustment

Divorce occurs in approximately 50% of formal marital unions.

Sometimes it happens in the early years of marriage and sometimes it happens after decades. In either case, your pain and confusion from such loss can be devastating.

Legal process, involving adversarial attorneys, depositions, filing, witnesses, testimony, and attorney’s fees can leave you traumatized and usually financially busted.

It’s common to go over the experience repeatedly in your head, long after the divorce is FINAL legally.

Irrespective if you initiated it or your former spouse did. explaining what happened to children, relatives, and co-workers is difficult to say the least.

Divorce can make you feel isolated and rejected while it is occurring and long after it is over. This can lead to difficulties in your daily functioning for quite some time and often involves unexplained anxiety and depression, and even occasional suicidal thoughts, which drains you emotionally and spiritually.

Counseling or Life Coaching in these situations is NOT a luxury, it’s pretty much a necessity. Compared to the costs of paying for lawyers and court hearings because you have no choice, counseling is something you do because you want to.

Divorce is a stigmatizing and draining process, so virtual counseling and coaching to deal with your emotions can be a useful, confidential and convenient process, where you are discussing issues in the privacy of your own space, without interruptions.

As a Professional Counselor and Expert Level Coach, I can offer you solutions that help you to cope so that you can function optimally.

As someone who has personally experienced the trauma related to divorce, you will be talking to someone who really understands the reality you are experiencing. I survived and so can you!

If you are having emotional or physical symptoms that may require you considering prescription medications, I can work with your chosen medical provider, if the need arises.

You don’t need to go through the confusion and pain all by yourself. Find a competent Professional Counselor or Expert Level Life Coach to walk with you toward the future.