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Five Short Chapters – Portia Nelson

Chapter I

I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost … I am helpless. It isn’t my fault. It takes me forever to find a way out.

Chapter II

I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don’t see it. I fall in again. I can’t believe I am in the same place. But it isn’t my fault. It still takes a long time to get out.

Chapter III

I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it is there. I still fall in … it’s a habit. My eyes are open. I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately.

Chapter IV

I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it.

Chapter V

I walk down another street.

Time Management

Why Worry About Time and Its Management?

Why We Juggle Time Poorly

If you feel as though you are always having to juggle time to do what is expected of you, then learning better time management can help you master time instead of time mastering you!

As an Expert Level Time Management Coach, and someone who has manage organizations of different sizes, I have learned a great deal about how we view this thing called time.

In Ecclesiastes 3 and Chapters 1-22, there is an oft quoted scripture about time.  I reference it here, not as a advocate of any doctrine, but because it tells us that the problem of time has been discussed for a very long time and this particular scripture, gives us a perspective on time and how priorities in life often determine how we use time.  

https://biblia.com/bible/esv/ecclesiastes/3/1-22

Time as a unique phenomenological structure created by the human mind’s ability to segment reality into distinct quantifiable units is not found outside of humans. As such, the mind as difficulty releasing its focus away from timed events and simply entering into a state of mind-less consciousness that feels as though boundaries have vanished.

This sensation or lack of time experience is extremely difficult to maintain for any length of time. The natural response is an experience of becoming disoriented and experiencing anxiety.

Perhaps, underlying this anxiety is another unique aspect of being human that is found inside our unique brains. The neurological structure of the brain and the mind that is contained within it, can only vicariously experience death through the witnessing of anthers’ death.

From this witnessing of the “end of another’s time”, we gain the concepts of beginning and end, past and future, as well as start and finish. Those concepts are entrenched in all languages of the world.

Time, as reflected in a watch or clock is observed to exist externally and visually, However, physicists have argued that time has no reality to it!

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Links By Category to Other Resources

The links listed below are by listed as categories and include information on the following topics:

Veterans, Mental Health, Policing, Retirement Planning, Traumas, Covid, Anxiety, Dementia, Alzheimers, Step Parenting, Time Management, Human Sexuality, Mental Illness, Pre-marital Counseling, School Violence, Depression, Military and Civilian and Suicide.  I have also included writings from my Renditions Blog. We cut the chain on the resource fence for you.  So now, “Just click and go!” 

Veterans

When Warriors Put On A Badge

https://www.themarshallproject.org/2017/03/30/when-warriors-put-on-the-badge

Headspace and Timing Podcasts on Military Suicide

https://veteranmentalhealth.com/podcast/

A Marine Veterans Story

https://youtu.be/-3nGL9E4fn0

You’ve already served your country

https://cops.usdoj.gov/pdf/vets-to-cops/Vets2CopsBrochure.pdf

Headspace and Timing – Veteran’s Mental Health Podcast

https://player.fm/series/head-space-and-timing-podcast

Mental Health

Weather Trauma

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-trauma-after-the-storm/

Dealing with Coronavirus Anxiety

https://youtu.be/xJ34DbKyX3U

Covid 19 and Mental Health

https://sawayer.com/how-covid19-has-changed-the-mental-health-services-model/

10 Apps To Help You Cope With Anxiety

https://blog.therachat.io/anxiety

Coping With Mental Illness

https://medium.com/@jakeshaver/adjusting-to-life-with-a-mental-illness-c9355bd61e4

Mental Health Crisis

https://sawayer.com/wp-admin/post.php?post=2469&action=edit

Dementia

https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/what-dementia-symptoms-types-and-diagnosis

Alzheimer’s 

https://www.alz.org/alzheimers-dementia/what-is-alzheimers

Emotional Betrayal

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/search?q=emotional+betrayal

https://sawayer.com/the-lessons-

Death and the Human Need for A Savior

of-death-and-the-human-need-of-a-savior/

NAMI Texas – Mental Health Resources Information

https://photos.app.goo.gl/BtMoAxAErtc69NFU7

Step Parenting

https://raisingchildren.net.au/grown-ups/family-diversity/blended-families-stepfamilies/being-a-step-parent

What is Depression: American Psychiatric Association

https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression

National Suicide Prevention Website and Hotline

https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Headspace and Timing Podcasts on Military Suicide

https://veteranmentalhealth.com/podcast/

The Texas Suicide Prevention “Just Ask” Project

https://texassuicideprevention.org/training/video-training-lessons-guides/ask-about-suicide-ask/

We Have Too Much Evil Before Us

https://sawayer.com/we-have-too-much-evil/

8 Things You Should Do When Your Divorce Is Final

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/8-things-you-should-do-when-your-divorce-is-final_n_57b768d6e4b0b51733a38119

Pre-Commitment Relational Skills

TwogetherinTexas: Pre-Marital Coaching

https://twogetherintexas.com/Pdf/WhatIsHealthyMarriage.pdf

Mayo Clinic Education: Pre-Marital Counseling 

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/premarital-counseling/about/pac-20394892

 

Time Management Practice and Retirement

Why Worry About Time and Its’ Management

https://sawayer.com/time-management/

Time Management Defined by Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Time_management

Retirement Questions and Answers

https://sawayer.com/retirement-questions-and-answers/

10 Questions To Ask About Retirement

https://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/on-retirement/articles/2017-07-10/10-questions-to-ask-about-retirement

Time and The Strategic Planning Manifesto

https://www.strategyskills.com/pdf/The-Strategic-Thinking-Manifesto.pdf 

 

Strategic Thinking Template

https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fd2slcw3kip6qmk.cloudfront.net%2Fmarketing%2Fblog%2F2017Q4%2Fstrategic-planning%2FStrategic-Planning-Process.png&tbnid=Y6TFjcXeZiEE1M&vet=12ahUKEwiyzKSY-OT_AhU0kokEHTW4BbkQMygSegUIARCIAg..i&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lucidchart.com%2Fblog%2F5-steps-of-the-strategic-planning-process&docid=_0ml0szmFROCbM&w=960&h=1312&q=Strategic%20planning&hl=en&ved=2ahUKEwiyzKSY-OT_AhU0kokEHTW4BbkQMygSegUIARCIAg

Policing

When Warriors Put On A Badge

https://www.themarshallproject.org/2017/03/30/when-warriors-put-on-the-badge

Profiling School Shooters

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/when-disaster-strikes-inside-disaster-psychology/201803/profiling-school-shooters

Are Police Obsolete?

https://documentcloud.adobe.com/link/review?uri=urn:aaid:scds:US:5986d80f-1682-426e-b240-b419f8d1ff81

Damage control and Media representation and responses to police

https://ro.uow.edu.au/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1162&context=ltc

Leading Police Culture Change

https://www.policefoundatiMmon.org/leading-culture-change/

What would it take to really change the police culture?

https://www.startribune.com/what-would-it-take-to-really-change-the-police-culture/436387213/

The Un-written Code of Silence

https://www.nytimes.com/1985/06/16/weekinreview/the-unwritten-code-that-stops-police-from-speaking.html

Peelian principles of Law Enforcement

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peelian_principles

Community policing

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ComPmunity_policing

Problem-oriented policing

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Problem-oriented_policing 

LGBTQ and Sexuality

What Doctors Should Know About Gender Identity

https://youtu.be/Euegk8-WjoQ

Trans Man

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trans_man

Transgender Anti-Discrimination Reversal

https://heinonline.org/HOL/LandingPage?handle=hein.journals/djglp25&div=13&id=&pag

Male Survivors Of Sexual Abuse

https://sawayer.com/male-sex-abuse-survivors

Sexual Desire and Better Relationships

https://youtu.be/VLhMOr0AH8I