Post Divorce Adjustment
Divorce occurs in approximately 50% of formal marital unions.
Sometimes it happens in the early years of marriage and sometimes it happens after decades. In either case, your pain and confusion from such loss can be devastating.
Legal process, involving adversarial attorneys, depositions, filing, witnesses, testimony, and attorney’s fees can leave you traumatized and usually financially busted.
It’s common to go over the experience repeatedly in your head, long after the divorce is FINAL legally.
Irrespective if you initiated it or your former spouse did. explaining what happened to children, relatives, and co-workers is difficult to say the least.
Divorce can make you feel isolated and rejected while it is occurring and long after it is over. This can lead to difficulties in your daily functioning for quite some time and often involves unexplained anxiety and depression, and even occasional suicidal thoughts, which drains you emotionally and spiritually.
Counseling or Life Coaching in these situations is NOT a luxury, it’s pretty much a necessity. Compared to the costs of paying for lawyers and court hearings because you have no choice, counseling is something you do because you want to.
Divorce is a stigmatizing and draining process, so virtual counseling and coaching to deal with your emotions can be a useful, confidential and convenient process, where you are discussing issues in the privacy of your own space, without interruptions.
As a Professional Counselor and Expert Level Coach, I can offer you solutions that help you to cope so that you can function optimally.
As someone who has personally experienced the trauma related to divorce, you will be talking to someone who really understands the reality you are experiencing. I survived and so can you!
If you are having emotional or physical symptoms that may require you considering prescription medications, I can work with your chosen medical provider, if the need arises.
You don’t need to go through the confusion and pain all by yourself. Find a competent Professional Counselor or Expert Level Life Coach to walk with you toward the future.
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